cheers for the offer Chris i got it sorted, but i'll prob grab that manual anyway
For some reason the programming steps outline above don't work, but unhooking the alarm module AND taking the battery out of the remote at the same time, did work!
So i un-hooked the alarm module (the big wide white plug in the back and the smaller one next to it) and left all the little ones attached to the sides.
Then took the battery out of my remote.
Let the car sit for a bit, then plugged module back in, and put the battery back in the remote. THEN i did the procedure above.
Valet button press once, release, press again and HOLD. Press 'arm' on the remote and BINGO!! It locked!! If only it did that WITHOUT having to unhook the alarm module, it would be even better
And for some unknown reason, it fixed my 'remote start' issues too. Wouldn't remote start when cold, was told to change the settings from 'voltmetre' to 'tachometre' or something like that, i didn't know how to change that without a bitwriter, but it's working now.
Chris, is the 'manual' different to the 'owners guide'. I found that, but doesn't have any real programming instructions in there....
do hope this helps others with similar issues after a flat battery
cheers,
daniel