The question was where do I get stance, which should have been how do I get stance, not what are everyone's opinions on how stance affects the handling of a car or relevant legalities. My 2c anyway.....epic defects,handling may or may not go out the window and as mentioned above, camber+low offset wheels + rolled and/or pumped guards+ stiff coilies.
Having said all that I'm still chasing some nice fitment:) I know how it affects my car and the consequences mechanically and legally, but I want it and will work around what I have to to get it