You sound just like Neil Benny
(hope he's not reading this thread).
Actually, I hear what you're saying and listen to & appreciate the advice.
I've done a bit of asking about and AMSAG seem to run pretty sensible events.
And the only reason I'm up for this one is it sounds like this guy is definitely not into playing for sheep stations (and he meets my criteria of only naving for blokes who have kids & actually like them). He's had experience, no crashes.
I figure I'll give it a go and see how it goes - I'll always try something once, twice if I like it