Hmmm- I find it hard to believe you "learn" from your mistakes if you don't take responsibility for them?
I know a few guys who lost their licences when they were young and stupid, and have come out better drivers because of it (catching public transport for a year will do that to you).
We might not like the laws, but we all said we'd drive to them when we got our licences.
And, I'm with Paladin and xRHETTx - there's no excuse for running a red, or talking on a mobile when you're driving for that matter- that's why God invented the handsfree kit.