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imo, he should be a man from the start and take his responsibility....whether theyre a couple or not, doesnt make a

difference, it is still his child!

i hate pricks like that.

says he with no children or never been in that situation

ha yeah it's amazing how fast some people change when they find out they got some1 pregnant.

i don't know why i bother with him though, trying to get things sorted out so were atleast on

better terms but yeah he's barely interested in doing that.

it's exhausting lol and i barely have any energy

Its a fairly big thing for a bloke to be having a child. It freaks them out quite a bit especially if they are young. He will be up and down.

Maybe start taking another approach.

Take a step back, don't be angry, give him some space/time without harassment once he sees the baby his instinct should take over. Hopefully. :S

imo, he should be a man from the start and take his responsibility....whether theyre a couple or not, doesnt make a

difference, it is still his child!

i hate pricks like that.

I can see where you're coming from Craig and at the end of the day you are right but this guy is obviously pretty young and stupid so logic doesn't always come into play. I'd have to +1 with Cubes advice cause if you back the kid into a corner he'll either do a runner or hang around for the wrong reasons.........then it's FTL in both instances.

Cheers to Andrew and Chad (as well as Jeff?) for the cruise through the hills. Great to go cruising with someone from the hills so you can find all the hidden treasures.

No worries mate, cheers for makin an effort to come up and make a good drive out of it.

You should PM the user 'ABU' about the offset and sizes he had on his GTS-t

I don't know offset but I think it was 18x9.5 and 18x10 with slightly pumped and rolled guards.

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Far out Jarrad, how sik does that look?!

It's amazing how good (and tuff) a 32 can look with the right wheels.

Having said that, that tyre's probably screaming at you at every corner and threatening that it's had enough being on this rim. :w00t::nyaanyaa:

imo, he should be a man from the start and take his responsibility....whether theyre a couple or not, doesnt make a

difference, it is still his child!

i hate pricks like that.

Regardless he's not handling it like a man so its time to improvise. Not everything turns out the way it should.

I think he's just completely freaking out. People/kids do strange things in times of stress.

says he with no children or never been in that situation

how would you know i have never been ain such situation steve?

NEVER ASSUME!

im simply saying, he should own up to it and be a man,

telling the mother to be, that he hates her, is purely f**k wit!

just because i have no children of my own yet, doesnt mean i cant voice my opinion.

how would you know i have never been ain such situation steve?

NEVER ASSUME!

im simply saying, he should own up to it and be a man,

telling the mother to be, that he hates her, is purely f**k wit!

just because i have no children of my own yet, doesnt mean i cant voice my opinion.

so HAVE you

otherwise my post still stand if you have i stand corrected twice in 2 days

Far out Jarrad, how sik does that look?!

It's amazing how good (and tuff) a 32 can look with the right wheels.

Having said that, that tyre's probably screaming at you at every corner and threatening that it's had enough being on this rim. :w00t::nyaanyaa:

haha fat as hey. I think hes gotta R33GTR now with some crazy offsets, he's pretty mad. Only in Victoria though haha

I could imagine that cruising down The Bay and getting raped by cops ;)

I've got a story that happened to a couple mates when we were 18.

2 mates.. One going out with this girl. We all went around to her place as her mum was having some party/gathering.. In short the other mate hooked up with the 40yo mum and she fell pregnant. His parents were asking to meet the mum of their grandchild.. Quite funny times.

Later another mate hooked up with the mums friend purely for 'experience/learning' reasons. But bugger that they were cops to put it politely. Don't know how they did it.

All occurred down south. I guess thats enough said. lol

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