Jump to content
SAU Community

Recommended Posts

I'll let ya know what the wife thinks about child birth in about 7 1/2 months!! Thing is she's looking forward to it, doesn't want an epidural or anything, wants to do it as natural as she can (its our first)

zomg whoever told her that it is TERRIBLE advice. Convince her to get an epidural - she and you won't regret it.

My wife gave birth 8 months ago and was in so much pain even WITH an epidural, that she had to have gas. The beauty is, with female hormones, she had completely forgotten the pain 1 day later.

However, Carolyn actually started crowning just as the epidural top-up was due (hence the plain relief was running out) yet they couldn't administer it as she was too close to the end. Despite that, once he was out, the doctor stitched her up WITHOUT ANY PAIN RELIEF whatsoever - at that point the hormones/pheromones kicked in and she was gold. However her stitches down there were an entirely different story for the next month :)

And yes I can't agree more Rubz - a few hours of medicated pain in birth is nothing compared with 3 weeks of agonizing shoulder pain - or even worse knee pain like Tangles.

And yes, unqualified people should just STFU no matter what. How can Amber think she knows anything about the pain of childbirth if she has never experienced it herself.

  • Replies 45
  • Created
  • Last Reply

Top Posters In This Topic

Top Posters In This Topic

Heya Roo,

I know where your coming from, we have had conversations that i also dont need to see the need to mention on here, but i know that your completely justified in your feelings!

I dont know anything about having kids, but im good at waking them up arent i Andrew! lol!

I think any women that avoids having kids because of the associated pain doesnt deserve to be a mother anyway, as any normal women like my wife are happy to endure that sort of pain to bring a new life into the world, its the joy that little life brings that is the important part IMO.

Amber annoys me on more topics than this one, mainly because she is quick to jump on her high horse on any subject when she knows nothing. I mean really, she trys to live her life like characters off sex and the city, that says enough for me, no wonder she cant get a man!

Heya Roo,

Amber annoys me on more topics than this one, mainly because she is quick to jump on her high horse on any subject when she knows nothing. I mean really, she trys to live her life like characters off sex and the city, that says enough for me, no wonder she cant get a man!

Too right mate. Now she does nohting for me but irritate me ... might switch over to Nova :)

Taking it a bit further, its annoying to see teens becoming mothers. Just have a look at your major shopping centre during the day. 14 and 15yo mothers shopping and bludging, all paid for by the tax payer. Those who want kids can't have them or can't afford it (thanks for the rising costs) and those who are having kids sometimes hardly deserve them, raising them in poor conditions and with lack of care/discipline. And what about this 18yo who left her dead baby on a neighbours driveway? Now, granted, I do not know the full circumstances, so I'll withhold my opinion and not feed her to the wolves ... but on the face of it, how could you not know you're pregnant? The Court will decide, I'll stick to reading it in the papers.

I fear society today are not good parenting material. They'll bitch about "giving birth" and the hard life and still claim the world owes them something ... when it suits them, as it suits them. The baby bonus is no incentive at all for the middle income family to lose one job while having a family, but a great incentive for a teen student to drop out of school. But in the day when the Govt throws you free money for having babies at any age (even early teens) with the baby bonus and support pensions ... it shows the teens who don't want to be in school are actually smarter economists than the Goverment.

Here's a new approach for the Govt: Baby bonus only for those couples/single mothers over the age of 18, who can prove they had a job in the first place? How about increasing the baby bonus rate according to the % loss of income and age? Reward the tax payer, by giving them something back. Don't give free money to bludgers! Centrelink are aware of this ... my mother is a manager within Centrelink and they've been pushing this to the Govt for years. The Govt just hasn't fixed the problem.

Blah ... I'm expanding further on this and derailing the thread topic ...

;)

Amber Petty is narrow minded ... enuf said ;)

Here's a new approach for the Govt: Baby bonus only for those couples/single mothers over the age of 18,

IMO it should be over 21. The baby bonus wont cover even half the initial costs of having a baby, but its the deadbeats who go on today tonight saying nah just want the cash, who need a swift kick in the teeth. WTF is society coming to?

I still like the TV ad where her dress is tucked into her undies :banana:

I mean, shes ok looking, i'd do this, would you? :bunny:

If I woke up, and her head was on my arm, just so I wouldn't wake her, I'd chew my own arm off...

Bet she used to work in a bakery. They pushed her face in the dough to make gorilla biscuits ;P

-D

Bet she used to work in a bakery. They pushed her face in the dough to make gorilla biscuits ;P

:bunny::D:rofl:

I just choked on my Coke :banana:

Edited by RubyRS4
Child birth is a completely different pain to any injury, neither could be compared!

And I wholly agree!

Child birth is painful. Broken bones are painful. Groin injuries are painful. How do they weigh up against each other? They don't. Everyone is an individual to pain also. Those who have experienced excrutiating pain deserve to speak about it, but you still can't compare one to the other.

Those who have never broken their shoulder in 3 places could not understand the intense pain I went thru for 3 weeks and further discomfort pain for the next 2 months after. The same goes for child birth. Amber has no idea what she is crapping on about. :banana:

And I wholly agree!

Child birth is painful. Broken bones are painful. Groin injuries are painful. How do they weigh up against each other? They don't. Everyone is an individual to pain also. Those who have experienced excrutiating pain deserve to speak about it, but you still can't compare one to the other.

Those who have never broken their shoulder in 3 places could not understand the intense pain I went thru for 3 weeks and further discomfort pain for the next 2 months after. The same goes for child birth. Amber has no idea what she is crapping on about. :banana:

I agree. Lets break Amber Pettys shoulder in 3 different places!!!!!1one. She can work on the childbirth thing herself. Roflcopter.

-D

I broke my shoulder in February this year and I put up with alot of pain for 3 solid weeks. I only got sleep when I was knocked out by the drugs. I was in pain for 3 weeks, not mere hours

oh man you're lucky you got drugs to cope with it! when i had a soccer injury, broke both my ankles and tore a ligament i was given no drugs! i didn't even get crutches or a wheel chair, i had to literally crawl to the doctors and at home, it was even a challenge to go take a piss! i was suppose to be fully recovered after 2 weeks if i didn't put any pressure on them but it couldn't be helped, i had to take a shit! so i was crawling on my knees for another 2 weeks! but when my sis hurt her ankle she got pain killers and crutches! :banana:

even though giving birth would be painful but isn't it worth baring it knowing you're bringing another life into the world? HARDEN THE FCUK UP!

Amber Petty isn't much better than that Milly girl who was doing the brekkie gig before her. SAFM are now full of ads, repeated music and repeated play lists day in, day out.

+1 for Nova.

Lol Nova is the same, they repeat all day, but at least its good music.

2 comments

What do you expect to hear from a radio station whose target demographic is 20-30 year old women? As suggested switch to another station or listen to the CD/IPod/MP3.

As for the pain, Yes I am sure it can be painful BUT - over 50% of children are delivered via Caesarean, most/many women have an epidural even for natural births, so I guess there are only a handful (slight exaggeration) of women in Australia who could truly comment. The other fact is that women’s bodies were built to deliver children; it isn’t anything more than the body can cope with. Anatomically the Vagina has very few nerves which makes sense when you consider its function.

Anatomically the Vagina has very few nerves which makes sense when you consider its function.

God bless the vagina! :(

Edited by RubyRS4

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now



  • Similar Content

  • Latest Posts

    • Thanks! Will get it looked at before winter 🥶 other than that she's a mint ride love it aye 
    • FWIW a lot of the local owners that do a big build tend to have cars that are perpetually broken. 
    • I just got this system but haven’t installed yet I got a Moroso sealed box (defect reasons) which will be set up same as their pic The quality is high grade, the correspondence I had with the owner (former head designer for Rockford Fosgate) was unbelievable, guiding me with what I needed. Even told me not to buy some things as it could be sorted in a different way at his loss. Just a bit of a bite with the exchange rate and don’t purchase gear in 1 hit that goes over $1,000 au, lol I forgot!  
    • Thanks mate for that reply. Very helpful.    it’s a 2022 400R so would most likely lose those features as you say.     I did a quick compare of a rv37 nav and heading for sale in Japan to q50 model. I’ll pop pics below. Seems  Japan spec head into top, nav unit second below it   below pic Q50 aud delivered     differences seem to be Aus delivered has a different plug top left hand side of head unit- not sure what and where it goes.   and nav unit Japanese tv37 had an extra plug put    Again I’m really not sure what each of these differences mean!       the actual plugs on a v37 and q50 screens look identical on both screens… pics below for comparing. (One screen was is a us delivered one) but should be same gps signals etc as Australia.    If it were as simple as swapping a nav unit from q50 aud delivered im interested -just want to figure out what the missing plug is for before spending big $ on a second hand part for it to not work, and I guess with the head unit, if the band expander does the job (I got a 20mHz so should get the range I’m after) so should narrow my issue down to nav unit only.  I’d love to know what the extra cable on rv37 does and if I eliminate that part what it’ll do to the setup,    and also, if I can figure out what that head unit plug difference is, what does that cable do and where does it got can it be altered or re-plugged?! Excuse my ignorance what is ACP/AA, what does that stand for? (Apple car play? Android air play)? so If I swapped head units to save using a band expander, I’d likely lose those better features to have an oem Unit operational. Better to use a band expander and retain AirPlay options and newer version of head unit     provably best to band expand it, and focus on the nav unit. th isn’t  a big deal/ would be cool to have it working  from what I can tel we use a PAL Signal and Japan uses a NTSC signal  I don’t know if there’s a co better or if the screen only reads NTSC, or if it’s the tv module that needs replacing… no big deal don’t need it but more of a curiosity thing on that!   Thanks for the info re tyre sensors, helpful and great to know.  I was reading the online manual off Japan website and it seemed to make it sound more confusing than it is  I guess a rim replacement would require the sensors to be moved to a new rim to carry that option over?!     Thanks for the info regarding diagnostic mode. I appreciate your help mate. Trying to brainstorm here to find a solution to get as much gadgets as I can working! I plan to get my local Nissan tech to have a look too who used to be at an Infiniti dealer back in the day to see if any thing they have or idea can find a soliton. But hoping anyone here has gone down the same route to make life easier!!   i guess identifying the cable/plug differences and what they do would be a great way of finding out if the units are transferable    thanks again 
    • No idea about the remote start part. If the V37 nav is anything like other Nissan JDM vehicles, you can't get the factory Japanese nav working in australia, a card from a different car almost certainly won't work, those cards are usually matched to the serial number of the DCU.  You could be possibly swap out the components from a AuDM Q50 to get it working, but if this is a new model (2021+) 400R, then you will lose the newer features like ACP/AA.  That said, if you have ACP/AA, just use google maps.. I assume a band expander would be required to get the local radio stations, but don't forget the Japanese FM band is narrower than ours, so you still might not be able to receive all Australian stations. I can't see any reason the tyre pressure sensors won't work here, there is the sensor unit inside the rim and the receiver nearby in the wheel well.  I have never had to change the batteries on my 2015 Q50, so I assume they last quite a while.  A straight battery change shouldn't need them to be re-registered as they are the same unit, that should only be required if you replace a sensor with a new one.   Word of warning, if you ever go into the 'secret' diagnostics mode on the main screen, DO NOT EVER do a 'reset' in this menu, it will erase all of your model specific data in the DCU and you will need a trip to a dealer to re-program it all, which would be particularly painful being an import.  This applies to the AuDM Q50 too.
×
×
  • Create New...