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RubyRS4

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RubyRS4 Grand Master

RubyRS4

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Ruby, did you apply for that ZOO Weekly win a divorce comp?

I saw that and thought "wouldn't that just f**k her right off!" :D

Would have been good to stir the pot tho. And before anyone goes flaming me for public celebrating this, there are quite a few things you're all not aware of and things I won't make public here ever. In a nutshell, she lied to me thru the duration of our 9 year marriage, and then some more. Its gotten to the point where her own family hardly talk to her, and they're still considering me family more so than her. :D

RubyRS4 Grand Master

RubyRS4

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hrmmm sounds to me like:

Courts --> :) <-- Ruby

when it came to settlement issues... she cheats and gets 1/2 (or more) which is BS... pre-nup FTW! :D

I just wanted out. And its not as bad as most divorces are. I do actually thank the ex for a civil split. Half the house value, right down to half the CDs. But we did argue over the motor vehicles. She wanted a share in my bikes. I warned her I'd come after her superannuation if she touched a finger on my bikes ... she left my bikes alone :P

I'm aware that she's been playing the "sympathy card" going around saying she never felt safe around me and I was violent and she feared physical harm etc etc. Which is total bullshit. I loved her and would never have hurt her. The only time I even got anywhere near yelling at her, was during the split in the end. I gave her no reason to fear me ... so she's playing our friends against me. But most of them know its BS of course.

In any case, I don't play those games. If I lose friends, they were never really my friends. :D

RubyRS4 Grand Master

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rumours give me the sh!ts!!! its then when you find out yoru real friends and mates ay! lots of experiences with rumours...

Yeah well it all means nothing when its a fight for popularity to get friends on your side. I don't play those games, I don't really give a f**k if I got lots of friends or not. The ones I do have are absolutely loyal ... and can tolerate me :D

There's already been a few rumours about, fishing for a response from me. Meh, care? She's already used the "he cheated" card to cover up her own affair. I paid that rumour no attention.

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mid life crisis Veteran

mid life crisis

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been there done that

there are no winners in a divorce even if ya dont admit cause your tough emotions and feelings are effectect . possesions are just that some ya keep some ya lose in my case i lost a house and a ac cobra replica and a lot of bucks .

i was married 23 yrs and never thought i would end up divorced but htere i was kicked to the kerb as they say . but now 5 yrs later with a loverly lady who i get on with great between us now we have a freehold house the r33 and a fishing boat worth around 24g if you told me 5 yrs ago i would be in the situiation i am now i would have told ya to wake up a stop dreaming lol.

but i still dont think a divorce is something to throw a party over none of us are perfect even tho we would like to think we are

cheers mis life crisis

Whiplash Grand Master

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Dr Phil? :laugh: LOL

Don't come to me for advice ... I'm only wiser because I've made mistakes :D

so your saying go out and make mistakes hey...................................... this could be fun

all the best for the future mate

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