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guess what hehe, the babys kicks/ punches are heaps stronger now and i can feel it more woo, it feels so friggin weird

but i love it :laugh:

I dunno ...

You've seen the movie "Alien" or "Aliens" haven't you? :banana:

he is the father, he's the only person i've slept with in the past year and a bit.

he's just wanting a paternity test and whatever else coz he doesn't want the responsibility

and he doesn't want to pay child support

Edited by pokie
he is the father, he's the only person i've slept with in the past year and a bit.

he's just wanting a paternity test and whatever else coz he doesn't want the responsibility

and he doesn't want to pay child support

Well, sucks to be him then doesn't it. :)

If you're going around planting seeds, you gotta be responsible for the outcome.

being all serious for a moment, yes its not often im serious :) ..

i think u need to consider all involved. do u want a child, and if so, is this the best way/environment for it. does the father want a child, will he support it, if not, do u really want to go thru this crap. and most importantly, is all this uncertainty with the parents fair on a child. honestly this doesnt seem like the best environment to bring up a child, both parties (u and the father) should both WANT to have kids).

i hope ur not using this child to keep the father around, lots of chicks do that and its pretty selfish.

yes u guys should have thought about kids before screwing around, but ur both consenting adults and know the risks. but u both should be involved in the decision to have kids.. and by the sounds of it, the father isnt too keen.

Edited by steveP
being all serious for a moment, yes its not often im serious :) ..

i think u need to consider all involved. do u want a child, and if so, is this the best way/environment for it. does the father want a child, will he support it, if not, do u really want to go thru this crap. and most importantly, is all this uncertainty with the parents fair on a child. honestly this doesnt seem like the best environment to bring up a child, both parties (u and the father) should both WANT to have kids).

well mate i think it's a little too late to think about most of that!

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being all serious for a moment, yes its not often im serious :P ..

i think u need to consider all involved. do u want a child, and if so, is this the best way/environment for it. does the father want a child, will he support it, if not, do u really want to go thru this crap. and most importantly, is all this uncertainty with the parents fair on a child. honestly this doesnt seem like the best environment to bring up a child, both parties (u and the father) should both WANT to have kids).

i hope ur not using this child to keep the father around, lots of chicks do that and its pretty selfish.

yes u guys should have thought about kids before screwing around, but ur both consenting adults and know the risks. but u both should be involved in the decision to have kids.. and by the sounds of it, the father isnt too keen.

the only way this would be a bad environment for my neice or nephew to grow up is if he was here.

god i hate that guy lol..

plus i think im the real victim here, i didnt screw anyone and know i have to put up with a screaming baby.

:P

*runs and hides*

being all serious for a moment, yes its not often im serious :P ..

i think u need to consider all involved. do u want a child, and if so, is this the best way/environment for it. does the father want a child, will he support it, if not, do u really want to go thru this crap. and most importantly, is all this uncertainty with the parents fair on a child. honestly this doesnt seem like the best environment to bring up a child, both parties (u and the father) should both WANT to have kids).

i hope ur not using this child to keep the father around, lots of chicks do that and its pretty selfish.

yes u guys should have thought about kids before screwing around, but ur both consenting adults and know the risks. but u both should be involved in the decision to have kids.. and by the sounds of it, the father isnt too keen.

i wouldn't ever use a child to keep some1 around, i couldn't care less if he was/ wasn't in my life

no he didn't want it but because i'm the 1 carrying it my decsion to keep it over rules his decision

to abort. i wouldn't have an abortion anyway, i'm not about to kill a part of me

it may not be the best environment for a child to grow up in, but i'm going to doing my best

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righto so most of you know i'm pregnant and am having a bit of drama with the father to be.

congrats :) .... i found out that i am going to be a dad 3 days ago ;) and after getting the news alot of thoghts went thru my head. knowing that you are helping to create a living , breathing person into the world is a great feeling ;) i dont understand why blokes run away from the responsibility.... but from where i see it you sound like your happy so go with it and dont stress out, thats the last thing you need..( for you or bubs) remember the life you are creating will depend on you to guide it thru its life and have the right ppl around from the start..

Mick 'n' Kell

ooooh congrats hehe.

well i had the ultrasound today, the woman doing this time was great, explained what she was doing and what she was looking

for and why.

it was quite funny, she had to jiggle my stomache like 5times coz the baby was in a difficult position but after a bit she

got me to walk around which the baby the decided to go into a more awkward position haha so the woman couldn't record the heartbeat.

the father did come, i decided to let him have another chance at this and see how he goes, he was pretty good at the ultrasound

talked a bit more and asked questions and yeah was more excited about it which was good.

i'll put the pics up in a sec, there on another computer LOL

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