It's My 1st Yr Anniversary With My Gf!

[R 2 THE J]

Ok guys..I NEED HELP!

This is seriously the longest relationship i've ever been able to keep without f**king up or getting the flick. But thats another story.

I'm not really one of those guys that shows emotions and i'm def not into all that girly tingling of the heart stuff either.

12months is coming up...and its comin pretty quick too..23rd of November...and YES..I am scared.

I'm not scared that it's 12months...i'm scared cas I don't have a clue what to do?

To give you guys a better picture...I'm 22..she's 23...i'm your typical filipino guy that talks like an aussie/wog...lol...sorry if I just offended anybody but thats the best I could describe it...you could describe me as NOBBY from the last BIG BROTHER, outgoing and always joking around. I was born and raised here..blame society ha ha..

Anyways...she's Bosnian..gorgeous..and loves materialistic things..although love is more important to her than money or anything in the whole world. Very serious but can have fun when the time is right.

Now I recently lost some trust in her by LYING to her. I told her I was stayin home but instead I was out clubbing..peer pressure from the boys made me do it..but no matter what I told her she didn't believe me.

So I REALLY REALLY wanna do something special, show her that I really do love her and care for her.

Suggestions would be great..and if there are any girls oyut there reading this..your info would be greatly appreciated aswell.

Cheers again

R 2 D J

[kuma j]

if i was you id break up with her. she would prob love that.

but seriously. if you have been with her for a year and still dont know what she likes then give up now.

[MANWHORE]

Come on kuma, have a heart mate!

[N1GTR]

Easy;

Tell her to pack an overnight bag but dont tell her where you're taking her to. Tell her parents and a couple of her friends who you know will tell her anything you say, even if you ask them not to (you know the kind "hey dont tell him i told you so but he told me where's hes taking you!"), that you're suprising her with a nice hotel room and dinner just dont mention in what state the hotel is in , book flights and accomodation at Daydream Island (or similar). Try and get a room like this if you can;

Have a nice bottle of wine waiting on arrival and if you feel like it, 12 roses. Although the last part may be a bit over the top that would depend on you and her. If she likes material things etc on the last night give her a necklace or something meaningful.

She wont forget it.

(Btw, not exactly an "affordable/cheap" option, but who cares, at least you get a short holiday and some time in the sun)

[tbag]

nothing like taking her out to pancakes on the rock for romantic deserts.

(the easy way to the heart is through the stomach)

[kuma j]

Come on kuma, have a heart mate!

i do. but really a year and still doesnt know what his misses likes????

[R 2 THE J]

i do. but really a year and still doesnt know what his misses likes????

Yeh I do know what she likes..

But as stated..it's the whole anniversary thing that I wanna get right...it's not bout what she likes..dunno if YOU actually read my whole topic.

I wanted to do something to show that I'm sorry for Lying to her, show her that I love her..and something that she'll never forget as previously suggested by N1GTR.

So unless YOU actually have a suggestion, I would kindly request for you to refrain from replying!

[kuma j]

Yeh I do know what she likes..

But as stated..it's the whole anniversary thing that I wanna get right...it's not bout what she likes..dunno if YOU actually read my whole topic.

I wanted to do something to show that I'm sorry for Lying to her, show her that I love her..and something that she'll never forget as previously suggested by N1GTR.

So unless YOU actually have a suggestion, I would kindly request for you to refrain from replying!

i did make a suggestion. its up to YOU if you chosse to take MY suggestion on board.

seriously though do people not understand when someone is having a joke?

[R 2 THE J]

if i was you id break up with her. she would prob love that.

but seriously. if you have been with her for a year and still dont know what she likes then give up now.

Is that joking???..Or Serious...??

[Xmetal]

Jewelery is a sure fire way to get the underpants around the ankles so start thinking about whether you think a necklace or earrings are the her thing, also pay attention to her current jewellery - does she like gold or silver? My last girlfriend had a thing for white gold so that was easy to choose. $200 should easily get a real nice necklace, you can scrimp on the chain because she may not know the difference between a silver chain and a not-so-silver chain however the neck piece is where your plastic starts to melt in the EFTPOS machine.

Kuma, You've gotta get out from behind that secretary desk of yours more often mate.

[NZM.031]

pancakes on the rocks.... OMG, that place was horrible last time i went there...

get her a star. go to starnamer.com i think it is... pay some money and they give you a certificate to say that this star at this location is named "such n such" you dont own it, they just name it..

or get her a half day rally experience or some skidpan time... if you really wanna show her you care, let her take your car.

as for the remark "youve been with her for a year and you dont know what she likes"... mate, ive been with my gf for 8 years in december... and i still dont know what she likes... ive got her sooo many gifts that have never been used.. even the stuff she does like, she doesnt use.. ive had enough of spending money to buy her nice things and then never see them again. go figure.

as for the lying thing... well, i dont know how i got around that one, man that was a long time ago... id be bored shitless watching tv at her house, and start falling asleep, so id say i was heading home to bed.. as soon as i got outside though, in the cool fresh air and hear the rumble of the 33... id be bright as a button and head out for a lap, which usually ended up hanging out in the maccas carpark with everyone else.. i got caught and had to make up for it... jewellery is always a good start..

i think though, its the effort you go to... organising a day, or going into a girly shop, etc etc. something that shows you car enough to go out of your comfort zone for her. or do something you normally wouldnt do, go for a nice drive and stay in a county cottage somewhere, or head into the city and stay at a hotel.. there are heaps of ideas out there... try googling for gift ideas.. there are some that you would never think of.

i got my gf a race seat for her birthday... she didnt like that i had a race seat and she had a standard seat... so i got her her own one... didnt go down well.

if shes materialistic... you cant go wrong with manolo's.

Edited November 2, 2008 by NZM.031

[Primordial]

lol @ some of those ideas... Why not just buy her a shotgun, a pitbull, a remote control car, a racing car game on PS3 - no wonder she doesnt use them, apart from the naming of the star they're all stuff you'd buy a male mate for his b'day!

[JAS-25T]

cock in a box.

/thread

[5hu7o]

get her some weed. so when u tell her u dnt know what she likes, she'll laugh instead of screamin at u lol

[eMsta]

you need to know how to woo her......its 12 months, surely you know a bit about what she likes etc. woo her damn it!

restaurant for dinner, and then back to her/your place for a bit of errrmmm........u know

[JAS-25T]

Yeah, definately go down on her to celebrate.

[Sheng]

Hire a stretch limo, go to some fancy restaurant in the city, surprise her with a box of roses and hire a room if you are keen

[Primordial]

RJ, take a bit of time to THINK about it yourself. By posting here you're obviously looking for a quick fix and an easy way out of your problem. Sounds like you're hopeless with women too if you're lying to her and are still clueless as to what impresses her (no, your skyline doesnt really impress her, even if she says it does ).

Rather than looking for 'cheats' by posting up here to find an idea, just think about what she likes! Hint: Every girls loves flowers and being taken out for a surprise dinner, unless she's allergic to pollen... or hates being seen outside the house cos she weighs 250kg.

[burkill]

come home drunk and tell her to " wet up broad minded female"

also, be ready to duck.

she will probably break your nose.

what the ......... it doesn't say s l u t ?

or you could take someone elses advice haha.

good luck with it

ps, this is joke

Edited November 2, 2008 by burkill

[satanic]

2-3pm start:

Limo from home to CBD (then on call for rest of the night)

Check in at Shangri-La Hotel

Quick freshen up / or sexeh timez then freshen up

Stroll through Observatory Hill and down through to the Rocks

Pre-Drinks at the Zeta Bar

Dinner at Summit

Night Cap at Horizon Bar

Hotel Room at Shangri-La Hotel

^ The above would cost probs $2K to do it right, add $200-$500 for a nice piece of jewelery to slip in during dinner or back at the hotel room...

Failing that, night in with pizza n porno would make a mad combo!