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Well my girlfriend of 4years broke up with me yesterday. She told me for the last ~6months she has not been happy in our relationship and does not want to be with me anymore. I honestly don't see where i was going wrong and why our relationship has come to this.

Putting all the shit to one side, I'm 20 (almost 21) and have been with this girl since I was 16....so what can i do to kill the pain of loosing my first love?

And no, please don't give me the whole "jizz on her face" treatment lol

Cheers fellow homies

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Wow 4 years at that age.. you must have been doing a lot right!

Seriously, there would be a tiny tiny percentage of people who get a girlfriend at 16 and end up spending their life with them. If I were you, I would have been waiting for this day to come. Not much you can do but get out there and enjoy yourself :D

Don't get into another full on relationship for a while, have some fun :(

That's a pretty good run imo

Well my girlfriend of 4years broke up with me yesterday. She told me for the last ~6months she has not been happy in our relationship and does not want to be with me anymore. I honestly don't see where i was going wrong and why our relationship has come to this.

What exactly did she say was wrong for the last 6 months?

I suggest do a burnout. Burnouts fix everything.

Thanks Ryan....

Yeah that's what other people have been telling me, to just get out and have fun (what ever that means bahaha)

Met her at high school and started dating and were together till yesterday :D

A few of my brothers friends have been together since high school and married with kids now....i was always looking at it that way with my missus....

Yes burnouts do fix most things, and i left her house in a fit of anger yesterday and dropped one right outside her house and sideways down the street....oops you didnt hear me say that :D

She just said "I'm not happy, ny feelings for you have changed within the last 6months and i feel as though it is time to move on so i don't want to be with you anymore".

Man it's hard...first gf ever and the first one i loved and she breaks it off with me *cry*

Well my girlfriend of 4years broke up with me yesterday. She told me for the last ~6months she has not been happy in our relationship and does not want to be with me anymore. I honestly don't see where i was going wrong and why our relationship has come to this.

Do you just want to kill the pain or get her back?

Also were you still putting out much in the past 6 months of the relationship? Could be a contributing factor that is often overlooked in long term relationships.

She just said "I'm not happy, ny feelings for you have changed within the last 6months and i feel as though it is time to move on so i don't want to be with you anymore".

I read that as " i been seeing some one else on the side "

This happened with my mate. He dated a chick since he was 16 til he was 20. They broke up for a week or two once or twice during exams etc. Anyway, they both ended it to not waste each other's youth, cos they didn't want to get married at that age. They then after a few months started hanging out as friends, cos they missed each others company, then one thing led to another and they got back together.

So my opinion is, if its ment to be its ment to be, you will get back together later down the track. So don't stress too much

annnddd... by letting all your car scene mates add her to facebook!

absolutely.

If putting naked pictures up on the internet doesn't make you get over her, watching several of your mates smash her gutted ewok at once definitely will.

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