Jump to content
SAU Community

Recommended Posts

How long were you friends for?

And was it a close friend or acquaintance?

And how did the situation come up? Did she one night say I want some cawk?

it's Friday spill the beans I need entertainment

This guy has a fettish don't you lol

I'm only friends with one, and just as a hi how are you if I ran into her, otherwise f**k that. I have enough respect for my current gf than to be running around talking to my exes.

It is only possible to be friends with your ex if the relationship was a stupid idea in the first place. Don't try and tell me otherwise birds lol.

It's good that you were able to cut ties, but you gotta be able to stick to it, sometimes the easier way of sticking to it is to just rebound, or constantly go out with mates, it will show u that you don't need her, and will piss her off as well when she figures you don't need her.

Unless you're f**king your ex I don't see the problem. Respect for current gf? What about respect for you? If you're friends with an ex and your gf has an issue with it, then she doesn't trust you / jealous / insecure. I don't change my friends to suit a girlfriend, they must adapt to my life, like I adapt to theirs. You sound like one of those guys who would stop seeing their friends if their gf asked them to. /alpha

Saying "if the relationship was a stupid idea in the first place", well you can say that about any relationship that ends really, if you're one for regrets. More important in deciding potential for friendship again is if you were friends beforehand or not, and how strong willed you are.

And stop trying to piss off exes / get revenge lol. Unless they cheated on you and you wanna hurt them, it's just you trying to win her back cause you know if she said "let's get back together" you'd do it in a heartbeat. Moving on is actually moving on, i.e. ex doesn't affect your decision making abilities or actions in any way,

Unless you're f**king your ex I don't see the problem. Respect for current gf? What about respect for you? If you're friends with an ex and your gf has an issue with it, then she doesn't trust you / jealous / insecure. I don't change my friends to suit a girlfriend, they must adapt to my life, like I adapt to theirs. You sound like one of those guys who would stop seeing their friends if their gf asked them to. /alpha

Saying "if the relationship was a stupid idea in the first place", well you can say that about any relationship that ends really, if you're one for regrets. More important in deciding potential for friendship again is if you were friends beforehand or not, and how strong willed you are.

And stop trying to piss off exes / get revenge lol. Unless they cheated on you and you wanna hurt them, it's just you trying to win her back cause you know if she said "let's get back together" you'd do it in a heartbeat. Moving on is actually moving on, i.e. ex doesn't affect your decision making abilities or actions in any way,

Comes back to being raised in a different culture..

You can be the alpha male all you like, but when it comes down to it I can admit to being whipped, where as you're SO whipped, you don't even know its happening.

I didn't say all relationships that end are stupid, that's you spinning words, I said that if you are able to easily become friends after a relationship, then the relationship never should've have been entered. All you would learn is you can't f**k friend unless that's the basis of your friendship.

You cannot tell me, that it wouldn't upset you, knowing that your Missus is going out and "catching up" with an ex from a previous serious relationship. Don't feed lies to people. If you think that it's fine to be friends with your ex like that, then you have NO respect for the person you are with and/or you are lying to yourself.

And I only pissed off exes because I was cheated on lol. So I agree with that point

Unless you're f**king your ex I don't see the problem. Respect for current gf? What about respect for you? If you're friends with an ex and your gf has an issue with it, then she doesn't trust you / jealous / insecure. I don't change my friends to suit a girlfriend, they must adapt to my life, like I adapt to theirs. You sound like one of those guys who would stop seeing their friends if their gf asked them to. /alpha

Saying "if the relationship was a stupid idea in the first place", well you can say that about any relationship that ends really, if you're one for regrets. More important in deciding potential for friendship again is if you were friends beforehand or not, and how strong willed you are.

And stop trying to piss off exes / get revenge lol. Unless they cheated on you and you wanna hurt them, it's just you trying to win her back cause you know if she said "let's get back together" you'd do it in a heartbeat. Moving on is actually moving on, i.e. ex doesn't affect your decision making abilities or actions in any way,

My view on if your partner sees ex's.

If they have broken up for a while and have been friends and hanged out for a while before you dated its ok

If it's a recent breakup or they never really hung out and if my gf says oh btw im just going out tonight to see my ex. I would be raging

Rolling some guards, helping Jess with a job

Perhaps kebabs.. Sup?

Lol was just a joke that I was going to sex you

But in anycase I could do kebabs late at night!

My view on if your partner sees ex's.

If they have broken up for a while and have been friends and hanged out for a while before you dated its ok

If it's a recent breakup or they never really hung out and if my gf says oh btw im just going out tonight to see my ex. I would be raging

Lol was just a joke that I was going to sex you

But in anycase I could do kebabs late at night!

We could do that too.

Lets go kebabs!

Comes back to being raised in a different culture..

You can be the alpha male all you like, but when it comes down to it I can admit to being whipped, where as you're SO whipped, you don't even know its happening.

I didn't say all relationships that end are stupid, that's you spinning words, I said that if you are able to easily become friends after a relationship, then the relationship never should've have been entered. All you would learn is you can't f**k friend unless that's the basis of your friendship.

You cannot tell me, that it wouldn't upset you, knowing that your Missus is going out and "catching up" with an ex from a previous serious relationship. Don't feed lies to people. If you think that it's fine to be friends with your ex like that, then you have NO respect for the person you are with and/or you are lying to yourself.

And I only pissed off exes because I was cheated on lol. So I agree with that point

I'm whipped? How? I'm confused. Who is the one who doesn't talk to exes out of "respect" for the new gf? Admitting you're whipped isn't a valid excuse for being a shit mate...it's embracing being a shit mate, which is even worse.

Plenty of people form successful relationships out of friendships. Going back to friends isn't a prerequisite for the relationship being a bad idea, you can say that about any relationship...it's a moot point. If anything they are the better relationships, because they haven't cost you your friendship too, which is often what people miss the most after a break up. No loss here.

Actually, I was in a relationship where my girlfriend had an ex as a friend, as did I. We were both comfortable with it because we were two secure individuals who knew where we stood with each other; we trusted each other to know our friendships were just that and nothing more. Neither of us cheated or saw this as disrespecting each other, so how can it possibly be? You can't really judge it because you've never pulled off being friends with an ex. Welcome to the 21st century brah.

My view on if your partner sees ex's.

If they have broken up for a while and have been friends and hanged out for a while before you dated its ok

If it's a recent breakup or they never really hung out and if my gf says oh btw im just going out tonight to see my ex. I would be raging

I agree with your view. The friendship needs a test of time to prove to yourself that you aren't getting back with them / trying to. A recent break up is dicey cause you likely still have feelings or the ex does, which is unfair on your new partner. But if it's that recent, it's probably too soon to be dating someone new anyway.

I'm whipped? How? I'm confused. Who is the one who doesn't talk to exes out of "respect" for the new gf? Admitting you're whipped isn't a valid excuse for being a shit mate...it's embracing being a shit mate, which is even worse.

Plenty of people form successful relationships out of friendships. Going back to friends isn't a prerequisite for the relationship being a bad idea, you can say that about any relationship...it's a moot point. If anything they are the better relationships, because they haven't cost you your friendship too, which is often what people miss the most after a break up. No loss here.

Actually, I was in a relationship where my girlfriend had an ex as a friend, as did I. We were both comfortable with it because we were two secure individuals who knew where we stood with each other; we trusted each other to know our friendships were just that and nothing more. Neither of us cheated or saw this as disrespecting each other, so how can it possibly be? You can't really judge it because you've never pulled off being friends with an ex. Welcome to the 21st century brah.

In any case it very different between u n me, I guess. I mean, you're a dick swinger lol

In any case it very different between u n me, I guess. I mean, you're a dick swinger lol

And that's what makes Australia > Sri Lanka, you're allowed to be different to me.

Tehe

Fark went away for a while this joint turned all emo dr Philly an shit

I don't talk to exes I mean it's an ex for a reason nothing against them, but I wanna move forward if I thought they were part of my future wouldn't be an ex in the first place.

Nothing wrong with being whipped either - usually something single guys throw around oh your so whipped bit rich coming from blokes who spend all weekend getting wasted with other blokes

/sausagefestlyfyo

Obviously not birds he is a sexy kent but most single guys well they ain't

Edited by alr33x
Guest
This topic is now closed to further replies.



  • Similar Content

  • Latest Posts

    • Hey lads  so im finally putting together my rb30 forged bottom end and ran into an issue. I measured my main bearing clearance with arp main studs torqued to 60 ft-lbs using ACL H series STD size bearings and standard, un-ground crank shaft journals and got an oil clearance reading of about 1.3 thou measuring straight up and down and about 2.8 thou measuring at a 45 degree angle (just above and below the parting line). My machine shop said they measured the main tunnel and it was all within spec (they didnt say the actual measurement) and to go with a standard size bearing, which i have done and the clearance is too tight, I'm guessing because of the extra clamping force from the arp studs distorting the main tunnel. I was wanting to run about 2.5 thou main bearing clearance.  My questions are: 1. could i just use the HX extra 1 thou clearance ACL bearings? that would fix my straight up and down clearance making it about 2.3 thou, but then would the side to side clearance be too big at around 3.8 thou? 2. what actually is the recommended main bearing clearance for measuring near the parting line / side to side. i know its supposed to be bigger as the bearing has some eccentricity built into it but how much more clearance should there be compared to the straight up and down measurement? at the moment there is about 1.5thou difference, is that acceptable or should it be less? 3. If i took the engine block + girdle back to the machine shop and got them to line bore the main tunnel (like i told them to do the first time, but they said it didnt need it) what bearing size would i buy? the STD size bearing shells already slide in fairly easily with no real resistance, some even falling out if i tip the girdle up-side-down. If im taking material out of the main tunnel would i need a bearing with extra material on the back side to make up for it? this is probably confusing af to read so if something doesn't make sense let me know and ill try explaining in a different way. My machine shop doesn't come back from christmas break until mid January, hence why i'm asking these questions here. TIA for any help or info 
    • I bought the model back in Japan in Feb. I realised I could never build it, looked around for people who could build it, turns out there's some very skilled people out there that will make copies of 1:1 cars or near enough. I'm not really a photo guy... but people were dragging me in a group chat for the choice of bumper as someone else saw the car before it was finished as they are also a customer of that shop. I took the photo in the above post because I was pretty confident that the lip would work wonders for it. Here's some more in-progress and almost-done pics. It gives a good enough idea as to what the rear looks like!   I have also booked in a track day at the end of January. Lets all hope that is nothing but pure fun and games. If it's not pure fun and games, well, I've already got half an engine spare in the cupboard 
    • Well, do ya, punk? Seriously though, let's fu<king go! The colour and kit looks amazing on the car. Do you have any shots from the rear? I don't quite follow how the model came around. You bought the white kit and he modified it to match your car? Looks nuts either way!
    • So my car is finally back from paint! This took an absolutely insane amount of work and should get it's own build thread - but I didn't build it. It was completed by Troy @ https://scalekustoms.com.au/ I originally bought the AOSHIMA URAS Type R kit while I was in Japan, it's supposed to look like this when assembled: Now, I thought that was cool enough until I opened the box with Dismay, as there's no way I could possibly have completed it. The thing is 1/24 and has details down to the steering wheel horn button, which is a 2mm diameter sticker. I originally wondered if someone could make it at all, as is - But then things got a little carried away. It's worth noting that the model does not have an openable bonne, let alone engine bay, OR an openable boot. - Troy has worked wonders with 3D printer and presumably better eyes than I will ever have. My photos suck, so I will post up some of his in-progress ones he sent to me during the way. Unsuprisingly, he is very detailed. A lot of these are out of order. But he: 1) Made a LS engine and an engine bay appear out of thin air 2) Made the bonnet removable 3) Printed the rims I will buy in the future (or any rim you want) 4) Printed and added the wing that is going on 5) Tinted my back windows as this is what my car has IRL (privacy glass) 6) Added a licence plate. 7) Somehow did the interior 8) 3D Printed my actual seats 9) Made the exhaust under the car connect even though this is likely invisible. 10) Created a boot with my fking battery box, power steering reservoir, subwoofer and toolboxes back there. To say it's insane is an understatement. And I f**ked it all up because when I was re-mounting the wing (it broke in transit) I spilled glue everywhere and ripped paint up and Gregged the rear half of the car. Which about makes sense. Also, this arrived on the same day. Quite the change from: I spent 16 hours per day over the next 3 days pre-christmas putting the interior back together, mounting lip, fixing various bodykit problems with window mouldings, etc. and servicing, rebuilding my 370z brakes to go on the car 'soon', messing with heights to check clearances for new wheels, etc. I also had a foray into mounting wiper-mounted washer jets which was an absolute disaster. The bodyshop has welded (and painted) over the stock jet locations for reasons unknown to everybody (i.e they forgot) I also wanted to wire in the oil pressure sensor on Christmas Eve which was a BAD IDEA. You do not know terror like pulling your ECU apart, pinning in half-fitting pins that aren't the right ones, but trying anyway because it's Christmas eve, putting your ECU back together and having a no-start condition with a fuel pump not priming. Then you undo all your work and the fuel pump still doesn't prime. So after all that terror and horror and pain and tedious disassembly, the issue was the relay in the boot which seems to have died/stuck when I was turning the car off and on about 700 times testing shitty washer jets. I also re-wired the fuel pump power plug which fell apart in my hands. I am very happy I had 3 extra pre-made ones from a few posts/last Christmas's breakdown. https://bluewireautomotive.com/products/10-x-pcm-ecm-ecu-terminals I have put an order for these in, so I can actually add the pins to the ECU properly. The commodore ECU does not have the pins for Oil Pressure via ODB2. However the ECU can support it if you create the pins and wire them in. So for round two, and somehow attempting to route that into the engine bay through my impossible engine bay grommet is a fight for another day. It's 40C in Melbourne tomorrow, I am half tempted to drive the car with the aircon on to deliver presents to my partner's family and see if it helps with the overheating-on-40C-days-in-traffic-with-aircon-on-only issue that the vents were intended to solve. Do I feel lucky?
    • Yes, while being... strictly unnecessary. Tuning is a bit like quantum physics. You don't need to understand what Schroedinger's equation actually means. You just need to run the computation and accept the answers. With tuning, you just push page up/down until the exhaust tells you that you've got the fuel right. The VE can stay hidden behind the curtain like the Wizard of Oz and you'll never need to know what he looked like.
×
×
  • Create New...