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So I just entered single life, haven't been single in 4 and a half years....... What do?

sorry to hear bro :(

I know how that can be.. sucks.

when ive been in that situation i found friends helped and keeping busy

so? you aint friends no more..

man if a girl did that to me knowing full well im in love with her, i would make sure she would become the most jealous person alive..

its a double edged sword.

While she gets jealous. You become a different person. Not the person she knew.

I jnow that feel borci and dez :(

Just walk away bro.

Her loss.

I put up a fight, the first week I thought give her some space, that the fight was ridiculous. Second week I got a little tired, tried to talk to her and see her every day. Third week I started getting emotional, telling her how much I love her and how things will change, tried everything. Now I think it's just time to resign to the fact that what's happened has happened, maybe it will be the best for our relationship and it'll fix itself, but maybe it won't and I have to move on. It's very hard for me as I'm not a quitter and have never ever let anything go, I always had the power and now I've got nothing.

Yeah, keeping my distance for now, she still contacts me every second day with something thats annoying her about me.

Like we didn't go out a LOT when we were together, she never had any money (no job), and I wasn't willing to pay for things for her EVERY WEEK.

So I've been out 2-3 times in the past couple of weeks, and she got angry at me last night that, I never went out with her, but now that I'm single I'm going out all the time and that pisses her off.

That's not quitting mate, that's knowing that you tried to fix the relationship and it didn't work...and it wasn't your choice to end it. No regrets. The only person who can have regrets is the person who called it off.

And don't talk to her when she tries to contact you. That's her getting her fix of you. She wants her cake and eat it too? Fuck that. She either takes all of you or nothing I say...if she doesn't want that life anymore then don't give her any part of it. How is she supposed to miss you, and how are you supposed to move on, if you keep conversing like that.

That's not quitting mate, that's knowing that you tried to fix the relationship and it didn't work...and it wasn't your choice to end it. No regrets. The only person who can have regrets is the person who called it off.

And don't talk to her when she tries to contact you. That's her getting her fix of you. She wants her cake and eat it too? Fuck that. She either takes all of you or nothing I say...if she doesn't want that life anymore then don't give her any part of it. How is she supposed to miss you, and how are you supposed to move on, if you keep conversing like that.

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