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Sure will look like a baws driving that

My father has one and, of all the vehicles I've been in nothing compares for the fun/excitement factor. I will own one, one day, just need to wait for the right one and some good timing.

Its called being wise.

I can't see the logic behind spending enourmous amount of money on your girlfriend unless its your wife, then you're sharing incomes together.

If you want to go out and joy some time together, get her to pay for the bill every now and then. If you're having to pay over 60-75% of the time, shes using you and most likely screwing some one else behind your back.

you got no fkn clue man, hence why your single. my missuz is at uni doesnt work much im on 6 figure income why the heck would i worry about who pays for what?

its evident yuor single, and will be for the forseeable future.

thats the stupidest thing ive ever heard.

chivalry never met you didnt it.. you being a tight ass explains the no gf thing lol

this.

Not really brah.

In a modern day society where women have occupied almost half of the work force, especially the service sector, men don't really need to dish out for women anymore. If she has a stable, secure income, you shouldn't be paying for anything for her. She's more than capable enough to pay for her own shit.

Not to brag or anything but.. i have met and fondled with girls that had a boyfriend treating her like a princess.

sure you did man, sure you did. Chances are she was a pig and her own bf didnt wana touch her so you got the scraps

you got no fkn clue man, hence why your single. my missuz is at uni doesnt work much im on 6 figure income why the heck would i worry about who pays for what?

its evident yuor single, and will be for the forseeable future.

this.

sure you did man, sure you did. Chances are she was a pig and her own bf didnt wana touch her so you got the scraps

You have no personality

you got no fkn clue man, hence why your single. my missuz is at uni doesnt work much im on 6 figure income why the heck would i worry about who pays for what?

its evident yuor single, and will be for the forseeable future.

this.

sure you did man, sure you did. Chances are she was a pig and her own bf didnt wana touch her so you got the scraps

Did i hit a nerve there sweetie pie? :kiss:

Some of us don't like to be tied down by a girlfriend... this aint no scooby doo Alex, we don't fall in love with anyone who comes our way willing to hold our hands :wub:

:laugh:

My mrs offers to pay for pretty much everything pretty much all of the time, and she doesn't do it as an empty gesture. I still pay for most stuff (dinners/movies etc) but usually have to force her to let me pay...She's a keeper :)

yeah my new ones like that, but i still try to pay as much as i can

but its better than the gold digger that i last had lol

No rain here in the north east... suffer

no rain here..... in the sticks :P

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